Will I be happy if I choose to love Lisa unconditionally?
No expectations
Commit to being with her?

Are we meant to be together?

Is the purpose to learn how to love someone that is difficult to love?

Have I learned my lesson?

Would things work out better if I chose to love someone else completely?

Why are we still together?

How do I get what I think I need?
Teach and encourage Lisa.
Change my expectations.
Get what I need somewhere else.

How come Lisa has such a hard time accepting instruction and following direction?
This is a fundamental problem to having things get better from my prospective.

Is Lisa happy with the way things are?
How come she says things are my fault and I need to change things to make them work?

How is it that Lisa can go years and years without working and she seems alright with it?
I would be embarrassed and ashamed to take and not give back.

How come Lisa never gets hired after going on a job interview?

Am I responsible for taking care of her?

What is the likelyhood that she will get along fine without me?

Will I be able to find someone else that loves and accepts me?

How will I feel if Lisa finds another partner?

What would happen if I have babies with Lisa?

What are Lisa's goals?
Get married.
Live happly ever after.

What does it mean that Lisa does not share her goals with me or does not have goals.

I have never seen Lisa work towards acomplishing a large goal. Things sort of just happen to her.
She moved to BC.
She got a job in BC.
She moved back here.
Why not dedicate heself to making this relationship work if that is what she wants?

If I say I want her to work why doesn't she get any job or discuss an alternative? What does she think will happen if she says she will get a job but does not.

Is it possible to love Lisa but be with someone else?

What's the point of loving Lisa?
Whatever you want it to be.

I will save money if I am on my own.
Dating will cost money.
I get new experiences.

Do I really want to start over and get to know a stranger?


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